It’s not that anything worth doing has to suck. People get this wrong.
You Might As Well Do It Now
Nothing will be easier tomorrow. Your heart won’t be stronger. You won’t be younger. No prince or magic fairy will arrive to save you. So what are you waiting for? …
The Strength You Need Will Come
The strength you need will come. I promise you. For whatever crisis you’re facing – emotional, physical, mental – the strength you need will come. Click To Tweet It just …
Toxic People Won’t Leave On Their Own
What you tolerate, stays. What you put up with? It takes a seat on the couch and settles in. Acceptance gives the head nod to extension. The state of not …
Weights Don’t Have a Gender
“She’s using the men’s weights!” People still say things like this. Really. Even in supposedly progressive sports where the prizes are equal dollars between men and women. (The endorsement contracts, …
“That’s Why I Like It”
He was young and dark-haired, standing across the street from the older woman. No shirt. Mower grass bag in one hand on this sleepy Santa Cruz street where twilight was …
Do you fit or not?
Sometimes in life, it comes down to this: If you don’t fit, you don’t fit. They’re likely not bad people in this place where you don’t fit. They’re just not …
More Surprises Tomorrow
“More surprises tomorrow.” That was on the monitor in the Marshall’s checkout line. They meant in the store but I was thinking, “Oh yeah, that’s life.” Life is full of …
Stop the Go Hard or Go Home Nonsense
“Go hard or go home.” Stop it. Stop listening to this bullshit and stop repeating it. Saying it won’t make you tougher. It will only make you sound stupid. You can’t …